Can I take your Pic-cha? Camera Help!

Okay bloggy friends... I need some suggestions for a good camera.  One of the biggest events of my adult life is merely days away and I want to make sure I capture all the fun leading up to it!

Here is a list of things I want out of my new camera:

• Easy to Use
• Small/Purse appropriate 
• Decent zoom/megapixel 
• Built in Red Eye Reducer
• No hassle uploads to my Mac 
• Takes great Day & Night pics 
• Takes clear vivid pictures

Here are some suggestions I have already received from friends...

Nikon S6100

Nikon S3100

Canon SD1400 

Any recommendations?